The phrase "drive up the wall" is an idiomatic expression used to describe a situation or behavior that irritates, annoys, or frustrates someone to the point of exasperation. Antonyms for this phrase would include phrases such as "calm down," "relax," "soothe," "pacify," "please," and "delight." Alternatives to the phrase could include "win over," "impress," "charm," "entertain," "reassure," or "satisfy." Using these options instead of "drive up the wall" would create a different tone in communication, either one of comfort and ease or of appreciation and enjoyment, instead of one of provocation or annoyance.